![]() But while you are never gonna prevent the giggles or the less-than-perfect hiccups in any sexual encounter - and I’ll always advise to deescalate how much pressure you put on any one sexual experience! - there are plenty of pretty toys out there that have the subtle, sensual design you might be craving. Sexy can mean so many things to so many people and to some those bright colored fun boys are exactly their definition. You want your toy to complement the mood you’re trying to set, for your partner to see it and think of it as an accomplice and not competition and for it to be something that seamlessly blends into the sex you’re having without it getting weird. When introducing new toys with a new or existing partner, you want them to be as excited at the prospect as you are and that can mean maybe second-guessing whether a hot pink and veiny phallus or rubber duckie-shaped toy (it’s a thing, it’s cute and a little bit weird) are the ones you want to lead with. why the pink and purple bright colored toys feel less-than-sensual in context with your partner vs by yourself - but, trust me, I do feel you. So while I do think there’s always a benefit to interrogating our feelings - i.e. ![]() I have had my share of sex toys over the years but they’re all these pink or purple bright colored things that just don’t feel… sexy? When it’s just me I don’t care but when introducing a toy to my partners I want it to feel as hot and sensual as possible. Which brings us to this month’s aesthetically-minded ask: That being said, there are all sorts of things that can put us out of the mood, cringe hard or take away from the sensual vibes - and our sex toys should absolutely not be counted among them. ![]() ![]() Bodies are funny and weird and hot and gross and beautiful and we could all benefit from giggling more and taking ourselves less serious in bed and out. While money certainly can’t buy you love, it can buy you orgasms - which can be just as good, TBH. Write in to let us know what you’re into, what you want to be into or what you’re in the market for via our hotline (we’ll keep things anonymous, of course) and we’ll do our very best to drop a range of toys and sexual health products that meet your tastes, wants and needs.
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